Planning a wedding is stressful. No way around that. But if you’re throwing out tradition and embracing your own unique style (like I know you are), it can get even more tricky - especially when it comes to decor.
And I don’t know about you, but when I was planning my wedding I would've rather spent my time sipping cocktails with friends, than stressing over wedding logistics. I wish I was able to find and hire that stylist who had my vision. Because let me tell you; a little guidance and a skilled stylist can take the weight off your shoulders.
In my world, the non-traditional wedding is all about breaking the rules. But most importantly, bringing your vibe to life.
But how do you do that when there are a million things working against you?
Here's how to dodge the biggest decor headaches that come with planning a non-traditional wedding.
“My venue has SO many restrictions!”
Oh, the dreaded venue restrictions. You know, those endless lists of ‘don’t do this, don’t do that.’ No nails in the walls? No candles? No problem.
Here's the deal: Don’t fight against the rules—use them to your advantage. There’s so much you can do without breaking a single rule.
Instead of obsessing over what you can’t do, why not think about what you can?
Freestanding backdrops, clever draping, or statement furniture pieces that don’t need fixing to the wall can totally change the atmosphere.
A great stylist will work with the space—not against it—and create an unforgettable vibe without risking any damage fees. Trust me: restrictions are just guidelines, not barriers.
“How do I make my budget work?”
Budgeting for your wedding shouldn’t be a horror story. It’s all about making your decor work harder for you. If you’ve got a tight budget, don’t stress. It’s not about buying more—it’s about being clever with what you already have.
The key is choosing pieces that can easily be moved around and reimagined. Suddenly, your budget feels a little less restrictive.
Take your ceremony backdrop, for example. It doesn’t need to stay there all day. Get creative and move it to a different spot for the reception—maybe behind your top table for some added drama.
The same goes for aisle decor. It’s all about multi-use elements that can change throughout the day. A skilled stylist knows exactly how to repurpose decor so it doesn’t end up gathering dust in the corner of a storage room.
“The weather could ruin EVERYTHING!”
If you’re getting married in the UK, you know you can’t rely on the weather to play nice. Wind, rain, sun—all in one day. But here's the thing: your wedding decor doesn’t need to feel like a game of chance.
A great stylist will be prepared for every weather scenario. We’ll make sure all your outdoor decor is weighted down and anchored securely. Flexible floral arrangements that can withstand a bit of wind? Yes, please. And a backup plan that ensures everything still looks fabulous no matter what the forecast says? Absolutely.
If you’ve got a pro on your side, you’ll never be caught off guard by the great British weather.
“Will it even look like us?”
Let me tell you something: There’s no such thing as a ‘right’ wedding style.
Your wedding day should be a full-blown expression of who you are, your personality, your vibe.
Forget tradition if it doesn’t speak to you...
Want neon signs instead of calligraphy? Go for it. Dark florals over soft pastels? Perfect. A completely unique colour palette that screams ‘us’? Yes, yes, yes.
The beauty of non-traditional weddings is that they’re all about reflecting you. A good stylist will help tie everything together—taking the oddball ideas and blending them into a cohesive, stunning look that feels just like you.
The Truth about a Non-Traditional Wedding?
Planning a non-traditional wedding is never going to be smooth sailing.
It’s messy, chaotic, and honestly, that’s what makes it yours. If you want something unique, something that reflects who you are, it’s going to require a little bit of grit.
But with the right mindset and a stylist who gets it, you can turn those challenges into creative opportunities.
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